POAC and the Six Q

Plan
Organize
Activate
Control

Each one needs the Six Q (questions, if that was not obvious!)
Why
Who
What
Where
When
How

If you notice, "WHY" is out of order with what is standard. There is a reason for this. It might need to be revisited on the other five. Each, one at a time. Do not let this make you suck like a Hoover with a bad haircut..!

If you are paranoid about your food bowl being empty then do not blame it on the people around you. Ask nicely for it to be filled and you will be surprised.

Unnecessary appreciation goes a long way past all attitude that causes a problem with what your inadequacies produce. In other words, say thank you every now and then and mean it.